President Edgar Lungu has pardoned popular musician Clifford Dimba, alias ‘General’ Kanene.
President Lungu has also appointed General Kanene as his ambassador for the fight against gender violence.
Kanene was convicted of defiling an underage girl and sentenced to serve 18 years .
President Lungu announced the pardon at Mukubeko Maximum prison in Kabwe on Thursday.
Recently Kanene released a song from prison praising the president and accusing Pilato of lacking respect by dissing President Lungu in his “Alungu anambw
ela”.
ZNBC reports that President Lungu has also commuted death sentences to life imprisonment of all the 3-hundred and 32 inmates at Mukobeko Maximum Prison in Kabwe.
President Lungu says he is aware that there is congestion in most prisons across the country and that government is doing everything possible to find way of decongested the Prisons.
The President says his government is committed to ensuring that standards in Prisons and conditions of Prisoners are in line with the United Nations Standards and other international protocols.
President Lungu says government is determined to amending the Zambia Prisons Service Act Cap 97 to include provisions that will facilitate the construction of prisons on a Private Public Partnership basis.
The Head of State said this will not only address congestion in Prisons but also improve infrastructure and general facilities for inmates
Quoting…Repressed Homosexuality By Debra Sutton
Repressed Homosexuality can lead to abuse when a gay man targets and marries a straight woman. The gay husband suffers from shame, denial, and repression of his true sexual identity. Most gay men who marry will never admit they are gay. Repression can lead to impotence with women. You may find yourself in therapy, marriage counseling, and your husband is having his testosterone levels checked. It is common for closeted gay husbands to suffer from guilt and self loathing, as his same-sex attractions continue. They are angry and resentful. You will never be able to do anything right in their eyes. You are confused. You tried to help as they suffer from depression,alcoholism, or both. The doctor changes or adjusts their antidepressants. Nothing works. They may have legal problems due to alcohol and drugs, this leads to more depression. The wife will also start to suffer from depression. Her psychiatrist will prescribe antidepressants and maybe some tranquilizers. Her confusion continues as she tries to make sense of this marriage. The women who marry these men are the most giving, and forgiving women. They have the biggest hearts.
These men who hate themselves, have nothing to offer in this fraudulent marriage. The wife becomes the target of all of his anger. My gay ex told me I was the closest one to him. He told me this is why I was on the receiving end of his anger, Lucky me! He lacks empathy, because he is so full of his own pain. He simply does not have room to care for you. He will intentionally cause you pain, he also seems to take some pleasure in this. This is because he resents you. His fear and shame prevent him from living an authentic life. He feels pressure to appear straight, what he feels the norms of society expects, this is why he marries. There is more to this, something in his core is disgusted by what he is. He is not comfortable in his own skin. He grows to resent the marriage. He wants to be free after many years of denying his true self. These men move on so easily after the marriage ends. They may have feelings for you like a friend or family member, but they were never in love with you. They feel relief when the marriage ends. The wife did not know her husband is gay, she was in love with her husband. She wanted her marriage to work. She is devastated.
The wife of a closeted gay husband goes through so much to put her life back together after the marriage ends. Many of these women suffer from post traumatic stress disorder. She blames herself for not knowing, and for the abuse she put up with. She thinks something is wrong with her. She has been stripped to the core by a gay man who never loved her. She feels used. She cannot trust her own judgment, or anyone for that matter. Her emotions and sexual feelings shut down, and she wonders if they will ever return. Sadly these men have told their wives, they are crazy. They have been gas-lighting their wives for years, in an attempt to throw her off the trail of truth. Many women find out by accident
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July 31, 2015 at 7:38 am
Quoting…Repressed Homosexuality By Debra Sutton
They find gay p o r n on the computer, or receive a strange phone call, or text message. The gay husband will blame the wife, or the children. If he is caught red-handed, he will only admit to what you know. He will say he never acted on his same-sex attraction. He was just curious. These gay/straight marriages become sexless. The closeted gay husband has been actively seeking sex with men throughout the marriage. As he ages it becomes harder and harder for him to deny his same-sex attraction. The gay husband wants, needs, and craves a man. He needs this connection that you his wife cannot give him. While the wife shuts down sexually, the gay husband never denied himself sex with men. Some gay husbands may admit to being gay, or bisexual after being caught, only to take it back later, or deny ever saying this in the first place. It can take many years for the closeted gay husband to come to terms with his sexuality. Some never do. They use the fact they are married to a woman, or have children to tell themselves they cannot be gay.
Tim
Works both ways- the husband of a repressed lesbian goes through the exact same emotional trauma. I know, I am one. And I’m not alone. Visit the Straight Spouse Network for more information.
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Debra S.
Tim you were married forty years? I know how devastating this is. I know you have been through a lot of pain. It is hard moving on when you have spent so much of your life with this person. Then realizing you never really knew them. It is so devastating. These marriages are so destructive to the straight spouse. Soul Shattering.
Tim
No Debra, I was married for 30 at discovery. My wife, though, had these “intense emotional relationships” starting at age 13. It w a s n ’ t until she was 54, when I asked her if she was a repressed lesbian based on some of her more eggregious recent actions, that she recognized that she had a SSA. How someone could live and not know for over 40 years is beyond me. She had 5 of these relationships by age 30, but they all lasted two years or less. This one has been going on for more than five years. That’s why, for the first time in my life, I started therapy. That and the folks from SSN saved my sanity and put me on a road to doing for me. My therapist, without ever meeting my wife, figured her out after one session. And it’s that understanding, along with the support from other people in the same situation, that has brought me back from the brink.
Listen carefuly,if you are a woman,the president has done prologative of mercy, thanks mr president on kanene’s fledom.back to you who is heartlesfolowing writings above which against the president’s good idea who are you to criticise the president?.you are foolish ,stupid,with your very big vagina stp drinking your periods that is why you ca’nt reason with president lungu.
WHO WILL PROTECT OUR GIRL – CHILDREN NOW?
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The President of the Republic of Zambia, MR. EDGAR CHAGWA LUNGU in his usual drunken stupor has decided to pardon a child defiler! He has pardoned a child rapist! I shudder at the thought of seeing any of my nieces, sisters and all girl-children growing up in Zambia.
Some of the respectable and professional men in Zambia are sitting there supporting the release of GENERAL KANENE from prison. They are saying that he was wrongly convicted! These perverts in Zambia are smirking at the thought of having their own back into circulation!!! I have been sickened by some “respectable” men in Zambian supporting the release of GENERAL KANENE.
There is nothing honorable about the incredibly irresponsible decision by EDGAR LUNGU to release a child defiler! Even among thugs, anyone who is convicted of a crime involving a woman is at the bottom of the pile in prison. How can GENERAL KANENE reform so quickly after singing his way into the pants of the PF??? Some of these heartless fools are going to the extent of saying the GENERAL KANENE should now go back and have sex with the victim because she is now grown!
This is the sickest moment I have ever experienced as a woman! This little immoral drunk must be shown the door before he turn this country into hell! For anyone of you who have sisters, girl-children or nieces, the PF is about to rape all of your kids! I want to scream!
Girls beware GK is out of prison
kanene mwana wa cuundu not only that but also a zambian like masumba and George mpombo and this minister muteteka so he deserves better also mwe.currentry we tongas we are beginning to feel valued by his excellence the president ecl.please bring us on I know u can.dont listen much from people like chama cos he only survives on tribal politics for without it he is totally nothing. a sad tonga.
Am pleased with the outcome.
Now release more songs, we missed u dearly
I saw it coming, it was written on the wall. Typical animal farm.