Leaked Alangizi video: Defending Alangizi, My Testimony

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By Musamba Mumba

Too much crap has been said about the leaked alangizi video especially by men criticising the tradition or institution as using outdated sexual orientation methods. As always some things I (Musamba) wait to read everyone else’s comments, analyse and finally share my views.

Well, I believe what is in the leaked video was just the basic or a build up to the main climax. I have never officially been orientated but again I am one person who never shy away from sharing and making confessions.

My Testimony, here we go:

When I briefly came back to Zambia from Botswana to do my teaching course. I so happened to have a lot of mbuya (traditional cousins), college mates that continuously bragged about how from a tender age is taught to swing, twist and make sexual dance moves in bed that makes men go crazy over them unlike us from the North part of Zambia where women are taught just when we are about to get married.

As with many things not dangerous, was intrigued, curious and anger to find out basing it on the fact that if our mbuyas are taught at a tender, why shouldn’t I know? So I spoke to them how possible someone not getting married and not an easterner can be taught?

Wow I got my lucky break with one of my college mates. She arrangement some women from Garden compound to come home to my flat at Marshlands village complex to teach me and later paid them. Oh yes these women taught me more than you saw in that video, forexample, able to lift and suspend your bum in such a way only your waist moves in rhythm of what things you want done to your man, how you can make your back flexible in such a way you twists when its dog style etc.

In that video a lot was left out such as washing a man with lukewarm water after the act etc. guys lets respect our traditional and culture and above all salute our alangiz. Thank God not everything was shown in that video.

After watching a white woman shake her bum. We take a lot of things for granted. No one even dares to revise the Alangizi syllabus. Who said the sex styles that worked in grandmother’s time would appeal to men of today? They are not grandfathers…lol!

We should not be surprised when our men leave us for bazungu (white) women.

41 Responses to Leaked Alangizi video: Defending Alangizi, My Testimony

  1. She’s beautiful.

    Umkhonto We Sizwe
    February 1, 2014 at 7:56 pm
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    • Beauty without brains is very dangerous! How does she reveal what she is capable of doing when ONLY with her husband?…damn!

      swine
      February 3, 2014 at 10:17 am
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  2. Where is the video? Can someone post it for us to make informed comments?

    kabo
    February 2, 2014 at 7:31 am
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  3. Just google ALANGIZI VIDEO.

    ABENA DIGGERS TOWN
    February 2, 2014 at 8:14 am
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  4. Just google ALANGIZI VIDEO.

    ABENA DIGGERS TOWN
    February 2, 2014 at 8:14 am
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  5. Ba Masumba you are worse than the leaked video,what you have disclosed is not for public consumption maybe you leaked the video.Imagine your own children reading your article??We are not interested to know how skill full you are that’s for your hubby. Icindikeni twapapata!!!And please when you are conducting these lectures try and screen the attendees.

    moojo
    February 2, 2014 at 8:21 am
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  6. Have just seen the video,women are to blame,these things have lost value because just like kitchen parties are being taken for fun even young teenagers are allowed in.I think you should start redefining some of these happenings the church should also help.

    moojo
    February 2, 2014 at 8:54 am
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  7. Eager to c the vedio. No comment 4 now

    Mwami bazungu
    February 2, 2014 at 10:28 am
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  8. I have always followed and appreciated your comments but on this one I think you have terribly gotten it wrong.The issue of sex is in the mind and not in the waist. This gift that God bestowed to man has its own rhythm that naturally propels the untutored individuals to positively respond to the rhythm while those who were tutored like yourself even forget to practice their professional skills from Alangizi. Just how many of those trained or even the Alangizi themselves are handsomely married?and have maintained their marriages due to having PHDs in the waist???

    Muna
    February 2, 2014 at 10:55 am
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    • Ba Muna ekaleni fwe taba mishaninapo. Thats why its is good to stick to one partner cos if u sample u will realise that kwaliba ba basikana shana boss the same way kwaba abaume apapopa. Has a couple then u just need to work at what u have to get better. Boss i cant lie to you sex te instinct ba Muna its an art. u perfect it. u work on it has couple until u get the best out of each other. They r basic movements and position that u try out until u get good at it. So ba alangizi balichita comply thru experience the best way u hit the nail. Naimwe mwikekala fye ati ni natural and self tutored. Mule ipushako abeneno nabakulu ebo mwa truster naba madam bene about certain positions and movements and if she would like it if it were done differently and how! This is how we continuosly get good at it. Mukaleka ba madam ba kabekate ku mwamuna ngao ngao. Sex requires an effort and continuous education ba Muna wesu.

      Baever.com
      February 3, 2014 at 7:19 pm
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  9. I thought the video was just like a Porn thing..those styles are normal,,just that our minds are sexually corrupt..lets not critise,,thats what our wives are taught..honestly those of you who are married dont you enjoy those sex styles ??

    BAGS
    February 2, 2014 at 11:52 am
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    • Mwana they even see girls who dance a lot worse than that in night clubs right in front on their eye and in full view of all the patrons.

      Baever.com
      February 5, 2014 at 7:20 am
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  10. yaba..that video is so dry..there’s nothing there..like we they are taught..

    pompwe
    February 2, 2014 at 3:34 pm
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  11. I’m well aware of the reality that the majority of those that have viewed this video, or are going to look at it, have already been exposed to numerous videos that are more graphic in nature than the said.

    However, what makes this footage a special case (and thus taboo to expose to the public) is the fact that the lady performing is not a porn star, or a strip tease actress. In fact, she could be a married, decent, and God fearing woman who had to go an extra mile accepting to perform for the bride to be. By exposing her to the public, they have made the work of traditional sex educators twice harder—it is not easy for a decent African woman to strip even for a small selected group of those invited (ladies only), and let alone dance the way they do at these initiation ceremonies.

    Whether we should uphold these cultures or discourage them is a new topic for another discussion.

    The body of a woman is a mystery and very special; not over exposing it to the public is beneficial to all of us, and especially to us men (I won’t go into more details on that for now).

    To the alangizi, all I can say is:
    • Do not commercialize these initiation ceremonies
    • Screen those invited
    • Choose venues with discretion

    God bless you all. I love you.

    Aibmaz
    February 2, 2014 at 3:43 pm
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    • There is no shame in what is done in those initiations to be so naive about. That is real for any married (woman and man) couple. Do not make the issue of the initiation is if it is something sinister, it is real, true and good. What may be bad is about those that are finding the material ‘p@rno’ with the beautiful ‘innocent’ lady , otherwise it is good for people to see how good the initiation is. That is a very excellent and well done to alaganzi. The beautiful lady there was doing good with her body and thats good first for herself and her future husband. That is how our good life as africans is. Dont be ashamed of something good lady, be real, unless something is not right with yourself

      Kaingo
      February 3, 2014 at 4:20 pm
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      • Do not even claim to love anyone when you dont know what love is. All you have seen there is shame, yet you cant see real love. Madam with due respect and love from me, say only when you are ready, and at times silence is a huge strength for kings and queens. with love

        Kaingo
        February 3, 2014 at 4:23 pm
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        • @Kaingo, always make sure you’re sober before responding to online comments.

          Aibmaz
          February 3, 2014 at 9:23 pm
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          • If you’re drinking, do not write; if you’re writing, do not drink!

            Aibmaz
            February 4, 2014 at 5:50 am

          • Aibmaz: Apo pena walasa kokolapo. Kaingo comments are infact worse than that of a drunkard.

            Baever.com
            February 4, 2014 at 11:08 am

  12. Ladies should learn to respect the African traditions, customs and culture. It is one of the participants at the initiation ceremony who leaked the video that she had recorded. My advice to Alangizi is that they should be screening those who they invite to attend their ceremonies. Otherwise, the whole thing is a big embarrassment and a lesson to traditionalists. These functions, including Kitchen Parties and Amatebeto, have lost meaning and are no longer respected.

    SHAME ON YOU, LADIES. Even the Lady from Botswana has not helped matters at all. It would have been better for her to just shut up or zip it!

    SIKONDA LUFAFA
    February 2, 2014 at 5:49 pm
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  13. We cannot continue to use a tradition that has for centuries dis- empowered women and lead to dependence on men. Preparation for marriage need to be for both men and women. Women should not be used as sexual objects. Sexualisation of marriage as a tool to solidify marriage has proved wrong, it has caused many problems in marriages adultery, HIV, divorces etc. Alangazi teachings are contrary to biblical teachings. I am not just a feminist here but a mother who has refused to bow down to Alangazi ideology.

    wow
    February 3, 2014 at 3:22 am
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    • totally agree with you my sister

      beatrice phiri
      February 3, 2014 at 12:00 pm
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    • “Sexualisation of marriage as a tool to solidify marriage has proved wrong”….. Ba boss there can never be married without sex being a tool solidify. Marriage is sex and sex is marriage simple. HIV is as a result of having sex outside marriage. Hence my earlier statement if u keep sex in marriage and marriage in sex no HIV largely. Alangizi tries to teach us as much good sex dances as possible so that we can keep it explosive within a home to prevent adultery later on divorces. Alas we men don’t do alangizi hence we end up not working and bettering what we have thereby causing us to hope to get it better elsewhere. Yes we will definitely get it better elsewhere with broader sampling cos levels of expertite is different. But at what cost…… HIV/AIDS, divorce and death.

      (To people living with HIV/AIDS pls am not for once stigmatizing. I am schooled on the issue of HIV/AIDS and know that they are many ways of contracting the disease. I empathize with your suffering, my prayers goes for you before God continually and i suffer with you all for your plight). May the God almighty forgive us all our trespasses has He thru Christ forgave us our sin and heal our land by showing our researchers the formula for the cure.

      Baever.com
      February 3, 2014 at 7:51 pm
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    • I doubt if you have a man in your life. You must be very boring in bed. Just call on those ALANGINZI to help you. You will die a sad woman my friend. Sex is a gift from God meant to be enjoyed by married people for as long as they live. All the saints in the bible starting from Adam and Eve to people like Noah, Moses, Abraham, Jocab, King David etc enjoyed it too. Juda (Jacobs son) by mistake did it with his daughter in law. Which marriage can stand without good sex. We need these alanginzi to spice up our sex life.

      J J
      February 4, 2014 at 2:37 pm
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  14. You are such a useless woman! How can you encourage such cheap talk?? You are even worse than the person who posted the original video. I dont think I can have respect for someone who has been orientated by means of playing around rather than what these teachings are made for. You had the guts to pay someone to teach you because you thought you would not get married?? Remove your ugly face from the screen, you repulse me!

    Musambachipuba
    February 3, 2014 at 12:21 pm
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    • she didn’t say she got taught to prostitute. She simply said she did it to get better at it. Most cultures in Zambia do it earlier. E.g when lunda circumcises their boys during muganda they dont tell them u can now go and sleep with every women u c passing around today. They simply do it to prepare their men so that sensitive is reduce and hence can last a little longer during sex when they get married. When lozi, kaondes and many other tribes that teach girls at puberty do that, they dont sent them to go and have sex. They start teaching them how to do sex dances that they should eventually be good at when they get married. We all are good at learning things when we r young. No parent would teach their children sex moves to put them to use tomorrow. Maslow’s need of hierarchy puts sex has the foundation for human existence/needs/wants hence i don’t see any reason why u should demonize being good at it. By the way both men and women should be good at it. Adam and Eve realised the moment they sinned that they were naked before each other and covered themselves. Why nakedness between man and woman is the foundation for sex. God oriented them to have sex like minds towards each other from hence forth. The aftermaths were the Cains and Abel’s who came to subdue and fill this earth.

      Sex is central to human existence my brother that we should be good at it. The only thing we should never do and encourage each other not to do, is to do it outside marriage setup and causally. it has grave consequences if done that way.

      Baever.com
      February 3, 2014 at 6:12 pm
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  15. God help us……..some women awe mwandi

    southern watchman
    February 3, 2014 at 1:52 pm
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  16. There is everything right and beautiful in any marriage that a woman and man satisfy each other with love. Men have there cultures, unless some men are never made aware not just in bars but well set set-ups. All people must know why they are entering marriage and how to respect and love each other. Some women have a lot of respect for their marriage such that they want to prepare, as opposed to some men that would rather simply marry without any preps. I believe whatever was seen on the video, is good for other people, western or non, to admire and give reverence of a woman getting ready to get married; so would a video of a man getting ready to be married. A man or woman that marries a ready for marriage partner is a happy one. Ask our mothers how they lived with our fathers at home

    Kaingo
    February 3, 2014 at 3:58 pm
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  17. Mbinji is not married so not an expert to talk about this issue. When u r not married u don’t mind sleeping with an amateur 2de cos u know u will pick a pro 2moro. Those who r married r blessed with 1 partner 4 life “in an ideal world”. Therefore there’s absolutely nothing worry with what the woman was being taught except the one who firmed it. A total disgrace to women privacy. Hope she doesn’t firm herself having sex with her husband and bring in public domain if she is married. She has no respect for the girl being taught. I wonder if they r friends at all and what she was doing there in the first place.

    Both partners need 2 b taught the best way to get the best out of each other. I’m married and my good uncles taught me what do to satisfy my wife. No details but u know things like the common folded chicken during matebeto and so on. Many more are taught to men too. I don’t see the notion that wives should be regarded as slaves to husbands. I tell u that both husband and wives bodies must be slaves to each other in marriage during the act. If u don’t do that u risk 1 partner going out to find total war elsewhere. Cases of kabulonga moving to Kalingalinga and garden boys eating special chicken parts when husbands are at work.

    Do u think the saying “when u go black u cant go back” is as a result of any biological makeup. No baba its because of the same alangizi u want to insult today. Don’t think everything u see white do on TV is the real world. Their Hollywood marriages break up in days week and months. When it comes to the actual act of loving making no one beats us African. Its not true that black men have big private parts. its the total package of movement that we perfect over time because our women do right movement and with time we learn to synchronize and become better. White r good at other action that lead to the climax like bring flowers, tell each other i love through the day and so on. But the actual act on the bed baba no one beats blacky and it is not slavery but best in the married setup where u do it with peace of mind. Not where u r being told “Ukalibe usiliza? Uzani fakilapo zinangu? Za rent uzani pasaliti?

    Baever.com
    February 3, 2014 at 4:28 pm
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  18. by the way no man should ever post anything to condemn Musamba for going an extra mile in learning sex dances. She is simply preparing herself that one day should the good Lord bless her with a husband he should never remember the movement he enjoyed in his past life if he lead an active one. Which most of us do. She should have a complete package for him. Men go to prostitute because these prostitute invest their had earned money going to learn these movements. When professional women r at working toiling they are in squatter camps comparing notes on best movements. No wonder their sexual package on a given day goes with the amount u ve paid. All u men know that. Nsakas, Mu chibuku and many such gathering men talk about sex and best way to do so often, u women u would be amazed if u were privileged. they shut up when when u come in the group and start general stories

    U women should also know that we married men never have peace in our minds when we go a week or two without u having an orgasm. We also go an extra mile to get ourselves ready to get u orgasms. By the way u even know that its not a simple task to do that. We r busy working and chewing nuts and cheese and so on. On the net researching positions and and things like how to hold back. That does not make us slave to u. Am yo husband and i don’t expect u to get an orgasm elsewhere i should work at it and give it to u all the time u need one. Do u know that we even go to desperate intervention like CONGO DUST. mwileka myebe ifingi. Nalalufyanya nipa lyalala pano.

    The simple reason we all get married is to have sex nothing special and never be cheated. Other things like companionship, help, partnerships we can get the best one from our mothers, fathers brothers and sisters that is not dependent on materials things. Its sex that bonds marriage. the moment that bond crumbles either way marriage disintegrates. That is why if the whites u pipo use as yo models discover that u ve been having sex elsewhere marriage ends instantly, none negotiable. Why because marriage is based on sex first and foremost. There is no two ways about. Maids and garden boys can wash and cook but the moment either partner have sex with garden boy/maid marriage ends. Why? simple! marriage is sex and sex is marriage.

    Hence any man or woman who remains faithful when the other partner cannot participate in “love making for health reasons” should be highly commended. Otherwise if u don’t have sex and yet both of u r health u should go and c alangizi/pastors/elders/deacons/bishops/priests etc no doubt about it or yo marriage has simply collapsed. And i bet u hardly ever even talk to each other. We all had girlfriends and boyfriends who we deared, and sweethearted when we had sex. the moment they got married or started having sex with other partner/people the dears and sweethearts ended.

    So convince me why husbands and wives should not be sex slaves to each other.

    Baever.com
    February 3, 2014 at 5:37 pm
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  19. and finally Bo Mbinji bo ndate Women’s bodies are made to be idolized by men. That’s why they have hips and breasts and a booty just like men bodies are made to be idolised by women thats why we have mascles and hairs on the chests and so on. When u c hair an my chest its nothing to u but something to women. Our bodies r made for each other to be used fully for sex in a marriage setup of course. If the boys can be trained just as much as girls r trained from a good age the best way to use their bodies as slave “to put it in the language u don’t want to hear” for would be their wives, we would never have damning statistics of wives who have never had an orgasm when we men bask in multiple countless times. We both male/female live for sex and food, then shelter etc before eventually self actualization which still takes u to more sex and food. Sugar mum/Sugar dad. This is reality on earth. We should all do everything possible to be good at sex. That’s why we live is to enjoy sex. The same way u invested energy in sku to have good food, shelter, security……and ego, is the same way u ought to invest energy in being good at sex cos it comes within that list. If it requires that Alangizi come in, let both men and women do that so that they r both better idols for each other in bed. The ideal world is in a marriage setup sir. Putting it in yo wording “males should also be taught in the idolisation of their bodies as a tool for female satisfaction and there is no two ways about it.

    Baever.com
    February 3, 2014 at 6:55 pm
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  20. It is a wake up call for Alangizi never allow cameras is these ceremonies period, Kindly investigate and follow the one who posted the video

    Chalo
    February 4, 2014 at 11:07 am
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    • yes the women in the video can sue her and make load shit of money for invading her privacy.

      Baever.com
      February 5, 2014 at 8:09 am
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  21. THIS WOMAN IS JUST NOT NORMAL,FIRST SHE IS ONE OF THOSE SINGLE WOMAN WHO TALKS ABOUT MARRIEGE WHEN SHE HAS NEVER BEEN MARRIED HERSELF.WHAT CAN SHE TEACHPEOPLE ABOUT SOMETHING SHEIS NOT INTO?I WATCHED THE VIDEO ITS CRAP,THIS ALAGIZI THINGS IS STONE AGE…..SEXISALL IN THE MIND MA MASUMA NOT OPENING YO BUM AND SHAKIN YO BIG ASS…..

    werrason
    February 4, 2014 at 3:35 pm
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    • Ba Warrason ekaleni fwe taba mishaninapo. Thats why its is good to stick to one partner cos if u sample u will realise that kwaliba ba basikana shana boss the same way kwaba abaume apapopa. Has a couple then u just need to work at what u have to get better. Boss i cant lie to you sex te mu mind ba Warren its an art. Erection is what is in the brain. Having an erection and making love r two different things. U perfect love making. u work on it has couple until u get the best out of each other. They r basic movements and position that u try out until u get good at it. So ba alangizi balichita compile thru experience the best way u hit the nail. If u have some more from your mind kaili you should just go and tell them that your mind enjoy sex when done this way. U will be surprised its on their memu already. Naimwe mwikekala fye ati ni mind. U shud asking abenenu, nabakulu ebo mwa truster, naba madam bene about certain positions and movements and if she would like it if it were done differently and how! This is how we continuosly get good at it. Mukaleka ba madam ba kabekate ku mwamuna ngao ngao. Sex requires an effort and continuous education ba Warreson wesu.

      And about the bums and big ass…..do u think God made a mistake to give women bums and asses. Would u rather HE had given them to u Mr. Warreson. I would love to see the shape of your wife.

      Baever.com
      February 5, 2014 at 7:38 am
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  22. Ba proud mushi whatever you are called dont embarrasse yourself.with your big fat body like that how on earth would you even mention opening your legs,bum etc,its disgusting to see a very fat woman with her ass wide open etc,we men dont get turned on like that,if it was a girl like mampi with her nice body,young etc talking like you all men here will have thier manhood hard..and you must be in mid 40s,chances of you getting married are NILL,you know that yourself i guess thats why you are now a staunt UPND cadre after been denied a postion in PF which you supported massively,all you are doing is tring to get publicity so if in your dreams UPND wins your are appointed ambassodor etc and abandone your NHS nursing job in UK…….yOU are like daniel munkobwe who joined politics to eat..what has changed in PF now the party your supported?its becaue you were not given a job,go in zambia and work if you need to be recognised not hiding behind your useless zambian eye

    tumu
    February 4, 2014 at 4:53 pm
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    • U have sabailadi mwana. Fat women, to slim to not married to manpi to to Munkombwe to UPND to PF God knows why u did not mention ANC and labour part or Democrats or Jennifer Lopez……anyway if prefer slim women others like them big. so don’t insult Musamba cos she is big. Women generally develop into big bodies as they advance in age. So young man transform yo mind and prepare yo brain to the fact that this same Mampi u adore today “and yo wife by-the-way if u r married” will be big tomorrow. Have seen Angela Nyirenda of late? That’s how God made our beautiful women. We shud enjoy them and their looks at every stage of their life. Don’t pile too much pressure on them about their weight. they are already dealing with enough because of pipo like u who want to remind them that they are no longer looking like what they where in their 20s. The video in question is about preparing when and women for sex before they get married not politics. If u want politics Zambian Watch Dog has many discussion going on there.

      Baever.com
      February 5, 2014 at 8:03 am
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  23. where can I find this woman mwebantu just for a night, hey she sounds so sweet. please give me your number musamba mumba I taste if u woman enough.

    Edwin kantagwila
    February 4, 2014 at 7:42 pm
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  24. edwin kantagwila dont be bothered,this proud woman is fat,let her show u her bum,very fat and disgusting if open wide,fat women also leave thier stuff down there so they stink,,she has slept with PF senior members but nt offered a job and now she is fucking UPND guys

    roga roga
    February 4, 2014 at 10:23 pm
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  25. You know guys let us not predent, sex is nice and good and it is the greatest gift ever God has given to humans and animals.The video was not bad but was it given to wrong people to consume it .Tooo baaad

    Chanda Kabwe
    February 5, 2014 at 9:03 am
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  26. Musamba Mumba u are a disgrace to womanhood. It is women like you who have no respect for tradition that leak such sacred information. You even put your picture kwati ulewamya – kwena uli Hule lya sala. Go find yourself a dude to keep u busy. you dont add salt to the wound by revealing more. mwesebaneni ba musamba.

    Pam King
    February 5, 2014 at 1:52 pm
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